“As pastors of the Catholic Church in the United States, we state as clearly and strongly as we can that violence against women, inside or outside the home, is never justified. Violence in any form”—physical, sexual, psychological, or verbal”—is sinful; often, it is a crime as well. We have called for a moral revolution to replace a culture of violence.”
United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, When I Call For Help
What is domestic violence?
Domestic violence is present when one spouse seeks to maintain power and control over the other. It can include physical or sexual violence, but also emotional abuses such as insults, financial control and isolation. Abuse varies by degrees and often escalates. It occurs in every cultural, economic, geographic and religious background, and happens to both men and women.
What does the Church teach?
Although the Bible and Church teachings are often used to justify abusive behavior, the Church has always taught that spouses are equals who should love and respect one another. Although the sacrament of marriage is sacred, it is never the requirement of the Catholic Church that any spouse remain in an abusive and dangerous living situation.
How can the Church respond?
The Church should be a place of practical help and spiritual support for all who are suffering in an abusive situation. However, sometimes the best way to help a victim is counterintuitive. Download the printable resources below for some DO’s and DON’Ts. DO’s & DON’Ts for helping someone who is being abused
Resources (All in English & Spanish)
SafeLine Kansas: 24/7 at 1-888-363-2287 or text SAFE to 847411 Free and confidential support line for Kansans experiencing sexual or domestic violence. This line will connect you with trained professionals who can help you take the next step toward safety and healing.
Catholic Charities of NE Kansas Can connect those experiencing abuse with a variety of resources or services that may be necessary. General number: (913) 433-2100.
Keeler Women’s Center Located in Kansas City, KS, this ministry of the Benedictine Sisters offers domestic violence support groups. English: (913) 689-9375 Spanish: (913) 689-9375
Catholics for Family Peace Resources for continuing education for parish staff and volunteers, homily helps and petitions for Domestic Violence Awareness Month, other resources from a Catholic perspective.
If you have questions please contact Brad or Libby DuPont, Marriage and Family Life consultants: (913) 647-0301, ldupont@archkck.org or bdupont@archkck.org.